Psychological Reasons The talk on the streets is that older men who date younger women often do so because they want to reclaim their youth and often the older man sees the younger woman as an investment.The investment issue is, ‘I will do all I can for you’ which involves providing financially for the younger woman.The men may also be divorcees who are again seeking an ego boost or love as they may have had a bruised ego as a result of the breakup of their marriage.
It is such a scary experience to be financially dependent on someone and also want to leave at the same time.
This is Part I of a 2-part series on dating younger women.
Younger women are in better physical shape and may appear more pliable than older women.
Many older men have had the experience of being in relationships that may have been difficult, ones that came with a lot of responsibility and complications — miserable wives, kids, mortgage and other day-to-day stressors of being in a long term relationship.
I have very fond memories of him and he never made me feel unsafe or uncomfortable, which is a huge misconception when you tell people you’re seeing someone who is rich.” “My first sugar daddy basically made sure I was able to feed myself throughout college.
We would drink wine and talk about fine art even though I was working at a coffee shop 7 days a week and before him I had forgotten what food besides ramen noodles tasted like.” “He paid my rent the first year I lived in New York City. There really is truth is in the fact that older men know what they’re doing.” “The first older man I would date would just make sure I always had gas in my car and had a house that had a home theater. When we broke up I had to retrain my brain how to afford things like a normal person who didn’t start his own tech company.” “I think I realized I was dating an older man with money when we checked into a hotel and immediately people seemed tense and rushed to help him with his bags to escort us to the penthouse sweet.
I stopped seeing him because every time he took me to a work function or dinner party everyone treated me like I was the flavor of the week.” “I dated a guy who worked in television before and every time we would go out I felt like I was with a celebrity. I knew he had money but I didn’t know he had make hotel staff nervous money.” “One time he rented out an entire roller skating rink for our date.
We never had to wait in line even at exclusive clubs and bars and he always made it seem like bottle service in life was standard……after we stopped seeing each other I realized it is more definitely not.” “He bought all my college textbooks and all I had to do was try anal a few times and make it look like I was interested in his financial work. I will never forget that.” “I think it never really came up until I mentioned that I was going to be behind on my cellphone bill.
When I got to college I started seeing a business owner in my college town and he showed me the world.