Posted on Jan 3, 2015 If you are a Malaysian guy studying in a country with majority Caucasian, this post is specially written for you.🙂 Come on, Malaysian guys, let us be honest to ourselves that you have the desire to date white girls.
" That'll steer the conversation where ya want it go. After you're married, your husband will be forever appreciative that you waited for him.
My wife was a virgin when I met her 40 years ago, and I'm grateful to this day that she was.
This is truth that most of the us Malaysian guys refuse to admit.
Many of them would give excuses like white girls are not attracted to Asian men, they are not faithful in relationships, the culture does not fit and so on.
Not at all the typical pretty/sexy young girl kind of thing.
Like I said, I'm extremely inexperienced in dating/sex (no boyfriends, virgin.
If women don't value virginity in men, then that's on them.
It's not stupid for men to value virginity in women just because women don't do the same.
If I was a woman, I'd like than a man didn't have multiple sexual partners before me as well. I'm a very attractive 33 year old woman who has allowed herself to be used and abused by many an older man. But sex for men is generally just sex, and you might even find that it completely ruins your relationship.
(God knows, that's happened to me.) Why not wait until you find a guy who's truly worthy of you?
Why not become self-aware enough to realize that you are giving into unhealthy behaviors, and stop it before it tears you apart. You are young and vibrant and obviously intelligent.