After all, we each have only the 500-word text boxes and crappy jpegs and clever (not so clever) user names to show for ourselves. Maybe in this environment where we are safely sequestered behind screens, we can get past some of the lingering gender-based “rules” that dominate the “How to Catch a Man” playbooks of yore.Maybe instead we can learn to treat each other as equal players of a very silly game that we all secretly take quite seriously. But it seems quite clear to me that we’re not there yet. I’m a feminist, sex-positive 21st century lady whose photos include me posing in a Rosie the Riveter Halloween costume.
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***** You might think online dating would create some much-needed “fairness” between the sexes.
Even when the person you're talking to is being honest about all their basic physical characteristics, the lying happens in all that goes unsaid, what my friend Dr.
Brad Blanton calls the "most pernicious form of lying."So many guys are busy complaining to their friends privately about women they browse or even meet off these sites but they rarely tell the women their harsh critiques directly.
Please realize: I'm not endorsing ANY of these critiques or bits of advice or the wording. But they're also honest, which counts for something, I think.
Are many of these responses filled with a fairly depressing amount of body obsession (to say the least)? In the interest of the truth, I wanted to present them here in all of their unfiltered glory.
I lose interest if someone isn't actually talking to me. To me, slow replies and uncertain availability to meet = bad. Also, the no bio is a swipe to the left.""Leave your goddamned phone off.