Also he has been cheating on his wife, so his friends and family may look down upon him...... If he was divorced then the story would have been different.........There is a reason that such affairs when lead to marriage have more chances of divorce..... Just get yourself a good single man, it will prevent you from a messy future I really don't know why is the other woman being treated like the worst sinner in all this. I have her husband not because of my beauty but because of my character.
But, if all you have is good bootie & nothing more to offer... You better show him you're an amazing woman in more ways than one. Oh before I forget, I guess the crazzzy and the ones saying those things are people who've never been loved for who they are but rather for their #love-time.
I hope you find men/women who love you for your flaws and someone who will find you #nice# despite the wrinkles on your buttcheeks and saggy #C h e s t#s, and he/she wouldnt give a damn if anybody stripped # not dressed # before their eyes.
You guys are having it the western way; marry the person you love.
I love the person I married and after 30 years, we love each other the same, we take care of each others wellbeing and I still do my nails & hair .
She should cut her losses and let him be happy be a woman and why would you want to stay with a man who has layed with another woman and you know it that means you are a weak as hell and you lowered your standards so apparently you just want your husband for money and you dont want him to be happy with another woman cause you will feel embarassed you couldnt put a smile on his face...
SMH wifes always place the victim they caused him to cheat on them cause he wasnt getting what he needed from you suck it up and let him go said, crazzy.
Obviously you won't get 100% of his love since he loves his kids too and has to divide time between you and them....
Plus his problems of alimony and child support will put financial burden on your marriage too..........
I am into a relationship with a married man and there were problems before I got in the picture. So am I the worst sinner for being there for this man who was only trapped in marriage for benefits. There was a time he got demoted from his job and the wife rejoiced. It's easy to be the other woman because you are not picking up after him or washing his clothes so he looks nice when he goes out to meet his #love- partner. you think you won a prize being with someone else's man?
The wife got the husband arrested twice...after provoking him when she was swearing at her mother in law...chasing her out of their house calling her a witch. I don't care if he leaves his wife or not the bottom line is we love each other... You may be the reason that he treats his wife with such disdain because he has an Ace in the Hole so to speak and a woman who tells him he's wonderful when he is not and a woman who will spread her legs at will no matter what because she doesn't live with the man that berates her and is unappreciative for all that she does for him. How you get em could very well be how you lose em... Have you ever looked at the other side of the issue question I was the wife that was cheated on.
What about the wife..is disrespectful to this husband... I can still have her husband without a marriage commitment. You disrespect a man he will leave you in a mansion and go stay with a woman who respects him in a grass hut*It could be that the husband is such a jerk to his family that he has caused his wife to become someone she never wanted to be and that is a nagger or as you described her not meeting his emotional needs.