[Read: How to stay in love forever with your lover] Giving up on love is the cowardly *and wrong* thing to do.There is so much more to be gained in continuing to love than there is in giving it all up.
They need someone to be close with on an intimate level.
You’ll be really lonely for a long time if you just give up on love altogether.
These are all really important things you should consider before throwing in the towel and calling it quits with love for good. There are thousands of people every day crying over buckets of melting ice cream, playing breakup songs on repeat, and swearing off love for good because they just can’t seem to get it right. In fact, it can take a LONG time for you to find someone to love.
Forget all of those fairytale movies about how the guy comes swooping in and rescues his damsel in distress and they fall madly in love and live happy ever after… Nobody ever explained that part of love to me, so I’d like to make sure that others are well informed before diving into a relationship. I blame my cynical ways and nightmarish past relationships for that momentary rant about how much love can be a pain in the butt. Nobody should feel so helpless in their love life that they actually give up on love altogether. In fact, there could be a very attractive, kind, and sweet person out there who’s perfect for you and who is feeling the same way you are: that love sucks and they should just give it up. Contrary to what all those damn romantic comedies may have you believing, love doesn’t happen in a week.
[Read: 7 powerful ways to combat and break out of loneliness] #13 You’re not thinking clearly.
Because honestly, no one in their right mind would give up on love. Having a heartbreak or traumatic event like that may cause you to think about giving up on love.Being single can steer you in the direction of love, even when you’re not looking for it. If you just give up at the first sign of struggle, you’re not going to find love.[Read: 15 reasons why being single can be fun, too! You have to work hard every day in order to really have a successful relationship.Giving up one of the greatest pleasures you’ll ever feel in your lifetime is just wrong.You shouldn’t just give up because you’re having a hard time.But don’t make such a rash decision when you’re so emotional. Love may be hard and sad at times, but you’ll also be the happiest you’ve ever been when you’re in love. [Read: 7 easy steps to be blissfully happy in a relationship] #15 You’ll miss out on learning more about yourself.