They'd even argue with me about buying them the wrong kind of juice etc.
And he’s so thoughtful – he remembers what kind of juice I like and always buys my favorite snacks and breakfast for when I come over. Western women dating Asian men does happen but it's definitely not going to become mainstream anytime soon.
Life isn't like The Lover, a film made in the early 90's, where a beautiful French girl goes to Indonesia and has a torrid, steamy affair with an uber-hot, wealthy Chinese man. Like anything, dating is a personal choice; but personally, I still believe that the vast majority of Chinese guys are simply not hot.
Jack has his life put together; he has his own money, he does laundry, and he always picks up the tab.
I really don’t expect that every time, but even if we have dinner and I pick up the tab, he’ll insist on picking up the movie afterwards.
Maybe I just need to get to know them better, and then I really would consider giving up public displays of affection in exchange for my favorite breakfast every day. I've had 2 long term Chinese female partners, both of whom were I was seriously involved with and had kids.
I was/am absolutely considerate; when I tried to get them their favourite juice or snack, suddenly it was inadequate or their taste had changed, they would constantly nag, belittle and even argue rampantly in public no matter how much I would try to ignore them or voice my concerns about it.
I've been told by both my ex and current Chinese partner that love is silly and has no place in a relationship, that love is a luxury and intimacy is scarce.
Unless you are willing to completely submit, and kowtow to a Chinese woman you will always be at odds and it is likely the relationship won't last.
When I was in Shenzhen, I was dating an American guy.
He took me to the tallest building in Shenzhen, which is now the St Regis Hotel.
And a lot of Asian men either have baby faces or feminine features. How many Asian men do you know that can grow facial hair? While I do love brown eyes, it's usually only if the man has blond hair. And that includes in his professional life, his relationships with others and his romantic life. Maybe Asian men do have some "shortcomings" in the genital area.