Obviously this is a huge generalization as I am not actually friends with my ex nor do I make out with my friends.
Some people may think that using Tinder is more like looking for love in all the wrong places, but the popular dating app has some distinct advantages over other sites. Just like on any other dating app—or even meeting someone new in person—starting a conversation can be nerve-wracking.
It cuts down on harassment because only people you match with can contact you and it helps you find people who are in your neighborhood. It's fairly easy to get a match on Tinder, but getting an actual chat going can feel more difficult than it actually is.
Sometimes it feels like the only thing you can do to start a conversation is to say hello, as boring as it may be. Tinder has a built in Giphy search keyboard that allows you to easily send GIFs based on different keywords.
Search for keywords like "hi" or "waving" and find one that fits your personality and what you want to convey. GIFs are my go-to way to start a conversation, and most of the time, it works—it's especially fun when your match responds with one too, and you get to get a sense of each other's sense of humor.
You don’t think they’re stealing from you, macking on your hottie, or otherwise trying to rain on your parade.
Give your girlfriend the same courtesy you would give your general friends.
So when you enter a new relationship, try not to let past experiences keep you from trusting anyone.
Sure, you should always be on guard and pay attention to the things that are staring you in the face.
Let her live as if she is – – a person rather than just your girlfriend. It just means that you’ll be able to stay in a relationship together without always being on the lookout for evil-doing bitches who have nothing better to do than ruin your life. I HIGHLY recommend that you grab yourself a copy of The Lesbian Lifestyle Book.
If you can treat each other with those general ideas and principles, you’ll see a rapid decline in your jealousy meters. It is the only guide you will ever need as a lesbian or bisexual woman.
Let her live her own life while still playing a major role in yours.