I have been dating a married man from before Christmas.
Otherwise a bad situation becomes worse when you resent him for a family you knew about when you got involved with him.
You also have to realize that no matter what happens in the future his family will always remain a constant in his life, so it is best not to start out resenting them in any manner.
A nice weekend away allows you to spend your time without fear and you can enjoy being a couple in public.
Whether you let him in on your reasoning is up to you, but a weekend away should be non-negotiable.
Date Other People Before you get all huffy on me, you should know that dating other people will force you to define your relationship.
Your married man will get jealous and you can discuss what future you have together, if any and or which direction you should take.Another option is that you begin to realize that your friends' advice on dating a married man was 100% accurate.There are plenty of fish in the sea, and no reason for you to play second fiddle to another woman's husband.This probably seems extreme considering you are dating this guy, but talking about what goes on in his home only reminds you that you will never be the ‘public woman' he takes out.Allowing him to indulge about issues with his wife or kids makes him feel better, while you feel terrible about dating a married man.You might be in love and believe he is your soul mate, but as Dr.